Thursday, April 7, 2011
Sitting with Bonnie Today
God knew that It would be important for us to have relationships so he gave us several different kinds. Sisters in my opinion is one of the best. Bonnie who is the sister right above me in age (although she has managed on many occasions to deny her place in the line up to make others think I came first!) has not been well and had to take a hiatus from the daily grind much to her chargrin. I, being the sister that she instructed me to be, have looked in on her several times this week to see to her needs. Also, to let her know I care about her. She is a joy to have in my life. There has been so much laughter between us about things that would not matter to anyone else but us. The childhood stories and sometimes misguided adventures as adults has sealed the deal between years ago. She trusted me with her children so I would be their caretaker starting with the first two at a young age. Her family was my initial foray into motherhood. My son is loved by me in a special way because of Jay, Darryl, Kevin and Kendra. To this day they are my brood. I adore each one and have special relationships with them all. When I hear "Aunt Paul" I know they still need me. My sister shared her children with me and was not afraid to leave them in my care. Although I know I was cheap labor, there would have not been a better way for her and I to remain as close as we are then for her to lend me her children. Bonnie, with a grateful heart , thanks for everything, especially the love of your children. All of you mean more to me than I will ever be able to convey. God loved me so much he gave me the five of you.